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What exactly is SEL?

Social Emotional Learning, or SEL, helps us develop the skills we need for every area of life, from academics and careers, to healthy relationships and overall well-being—skills like communicating effectively, practicing curiosity, and making good choices.

Our curriculum aligns with the Collaborative for Academic, Social and Emotional Learning (CASEL) model and focuses on developing competency in 5 areas: self-awareness, self-management, social awareness, relationship skills, and responsible decision-making. SEL classes focus on building specific skills around conflict management, self regulation, respecting identity and understanding and respecting boundaries.

SEL in the classroom

SEL at Brooklin School is integrated into student schedules twice a week: one class is SEL curriculum, and the second class, later in the week, is based in the library. SEL reaches ALL students and functions primarily as a preventative approach: developing social skills and executive functioning; building college and career awareness; and supporting kids to succeed in school.

Once a week scheduled library time finds a place in the school counseling program for a number of reasons. Reading is an excellent form of self-regulation. In prioritizing library time in the weekly schedule, we are teaching values and ensuring students have a comfortable, positive relationship to the library as a resource. Kids learn how to behave in a library, how to browse, how to check out books, and how to settle into the experience of reading.

Counseling

School counselors provide short-term, brief, solution focused counseling. Students at Brooklin School are seen by the school counselor as needed to help them through tough spots, identify obstacles to learning, help them with anxiety, self-esteem, grief, social conflict, anger management and family struggles. School counselors by definition do not carry a case load, and refer out students who need long-term counseling. Brooklin School now has an in-school clinical counselor that receives those referrals.

Each class and all of the staff are introduced at the beginning of the year to the referral system for individual school counseling. Students are taught to self-assess or “level” their need and to fill out a small form which indicates that level and helps prioritize who to see. All students know that in an emergency they do not need to fill out a form. We talk about what defines an emergency and how the levels 1-3 are determined.

Collaboration

The school counselor consults with teachers and collaborates with parents to help identify obstacles and support a positive school experience for all students. This could mean helping to initiate an IEP or a 504; helping families find community resources; addressing sources of truancy; locating ongoing mental health services; facilitating communication within the school; or resolving social conflict.

Annie Porter, NCC
Professional School Counselor